Dr. Laxmi, a well known gynecologist and social worker from Delhi, and who herself is a Brahmin (and married to the age of 37), suggests that Brahmin women should come out of their shells and act on their own since she claims that their corroded thoughts won't save them at all.
Dr. Laxmi again claims that most of the women who get married after 25 are not virgins. (Most Brahmin women do not get married until they reach 30). For this long period the Brahmin male is responsible for finally getting a SECOND HAND SPOUSE. She challenges that abstention from sexual activity is against the nature of the human physical body. She also says that it is the responsibility of the society to get them married quickly as in other religions.
She says that
if you are a Hindu women you cannot love anyone you like and you cannot
marry anyone whom you choose. Your birth sign (stars) should match your
mates birth sign. In addition you should meet the unbearable dowry demand.